Saturday, June 4, 2016
Mistakes Women Make While Having Sex
#1 Not Getting A Bikini Wax
Keep it groomed ladies. No guy wants to have to hack through a forest just to get to your pot of gold.
#2 Having Sex In The Dark
Men are visual creatures. If you really want to turn him on, turn on the lights, or at least light a candle.
#3 Leaving Birth Control Up To Him
Leaving it up to the guy to bring the condoms, is like asking a penguin to remember snow boots. It's just not in his nature. Have a supply of your own
#4 Assuming Sex Means Love
Great sex does not mean long lasting love. Spend time with him before taking the plunge.
#5 Not Shaving Your Legs
Hairy legs are a turn off. Keep them smooth and silky.
#6 IT'S NOT THAT EASY!
Men are not machines. They cannot get instantly aroused on command and maintain it for as long as you like. Have some compassion.
#7 Laying There Like A Dead Flounder
Don't just lay there and let him do all the work. No matter how great you look, you need to make some moves.
10 Weird Facts About Vaginas That You Probably Didn’t Know
1. They can fall out
As weird as it sounds, falling vaginas are somewhat common. One in ten women will require surgery for pelvic organ prolapse in their lives. In particularly severe cases, the walls of the vagina will sit outside of the body.
This would usually only happen after a complicated childbirth, being overweight, having a hysterectomy or just getting old. To counteract this, women are encouraged to exercise their vaginas to keep the muscles strong and supportive.
This would usually only happen after a complicated childbirth, being overweight, having a hysterectomy or just getting old. To counteract this, women are encouraged to exercise their vaginas to keep the muscles strong and supportive.
2. Women can pee out of them
Firstly, just to clarify, women pee through their urethra, not their vagina. HOWEVER! Some women do have a little bit of leakage which leads to urine flowing down the wrong hole. A urogenital fistula is a fissure between the bladder and vagina which is usually caused by a long, obstructed labour.
3. They’re fantastic for storage
In 2011, a Scranton burglar admitted to hiding 54 bags of heroin and $51.22 in her vagina. Then in 2014, a corrections officer spotted a loaded gun in a 19 year old woman’s vagina after she was arrested for driving with a suspended license.
There was also the case of a Las Vegas masseuse stealing a customer’s $35,000 Rolex and hiding it in her… lady bits
There was also the case of a Las Vegas masseuse stealing a customer’s $35,000 Rolex and hiding it in her… lady bits
4. Women can be born without them
About one in 5,000 woman suffer from this at birth. Vaginal agenesis is a congenital disorder caused by the incomplete development of the muscular canal connecting the cervix to the vulva, aka the vagina. So, you know… that’s a thing.
5. They can (ugh) ooze “white flowers”
We’ve got a lot to thank antibiotics for here. Before they were readily available (and even now sometimes), women frequently suffered from copious amounts of pungent discharge.
For some reason, the old-timey folk decided to call this discharge “white flowers”… perhaps they were being ironic? And while there’s a lot of causes for this, doctors of the day almost completely missed the point and blamed it on too much sitting
For some reason, the old-timey folk decided to call this discharge “white flowers”… perhaps they were being ironic? And while there’s a lot of causes for this, doctors of the day almost completely missed the point and blamed it on too much sitting
6. Some women thought cleaning it with a disinfectant cleaning product was a good idea
In the early twentieth century, Lysol marketed their product aggressively and succesfully to women as a vaginal douche.
This is very ill-advised and Lysol just targeted women’s insecurities. Nice. In general, doctors don’t encourage douching as is can affect the vaginal flora and, despite everything, cause infection.
This is very ill-advised and Lysol just targeted women’s insecurities. Nice. In general, doctors don’t encourage douching as is can affect the vaginal flora and, despite everything, cause infection.
7. People thought it was an inside-out penis…
Yep. As late as the 17th century, medical professionals believed the vagina to be an inside-out penis. It comes from the Greeks who were under the impression that the womb would wonder around the woman’s body and the ovaries were the scrotum inside the body.
8. Some women are unaware of their cervix
The cervix feels like a tip of a nose with a small hole that dilates during childbirth and then shrinks again afterwards. Excluding childbirth, nothing can get through the cervix as the hole is too small. Sperm can because it’s microscopic but that’s basically it.
With how the cervix feels, some women, whilst fidling about, feel it and mistake it for something stuck up there – such as a tampon. With that in mind, they’ve been known the try and remove it.
One woman even went as fer to use her husband’s pliers to yank it out… she required reconstructive surgery.
With how the cervix feels, some women, whilst fidling about, feel it and mistake it for something stuck up there – such as a tampon. With that in mind, they’ve been known the try and remove it.
One woman even went as fer to use her husband’s pliers to yank it out… she required reconstructive surgery.
9. They can grow teeth.
There’s a fair few tales where an angry woman’s vagina castrates and unsuspecting man during unwanted sex but they’re pretty much not true. However, they’re not that detached from the real world…
ln extremely rare instances a dermoid cyst arising from pleuripotential cells may develop in the female reproductive organs. These cysts can grow skin, sebaceous glands, hair, bone and even brain.
Even then, it can’t bite off a man’s penis
ln extremely rare instances a dermoid cyst arising from pleuripotential cells may develop in the female reproductive organs. These cysts can grow skin, sebaceous glands, hair, bone and even brain.
Even then, it can’t bite off a man’s penis
10. Sex is both good and bad for it
Having sex to orgasm can reduce your stress and anxiety. Having an orgasm increases oestrogen, which increases oxytocin release, which in turn reduces cortisol production (the main stress hormone).
However, if you have too much sex, you can suffer from chaffing and a urinary tract infection. That’s why you should always pee after sex… does it good, yeah?!
However, if you have too much sex, you can suffer from chaffing and a urinary tract infection. That’s why you should always pee after sex… does it good, yeah?!
Thursday, June 2, 2016
Wednesday, June 1, 2016
“What Does Love Mean?” See How 4-8 Year-Old Kids Describe Love
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think…
“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.”
Rebecca – age 8
“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”
Billy – age 4
“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”
Terri – age 4
“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”
Danny – age 7
“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.”
Emily – age 8
“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.”
Bobby – age 7 (Wow!)
“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.”
Nikka – age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)
“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.”
Noelle – age 7
“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”
Tommy – age 6
“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.”
Cindy – age 8
“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”
Elaine – age 5
“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.”
Chris – age 7
“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”
Mary Ann – age 4
“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” (Now THIS is love!)
Lauren – age 4
“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image!)
Karen – age 7
“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.”
Mark – age 6
“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”
Jessica – age 8
And the final one…
Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I
“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” (Now THIS is love!)
Lauren – age 4
“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image!)
Karen – age 7
“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.”
Mark – age 6
“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”
Jessica – age 8
And the final one…
Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I
5 Helpful Ways To Remove Stretch Marks from Your Body
And most times, Stretch marks are usually seen around the abdomen, buttocks, thighs and shoulders sometimes stretching down the legs and arms and rarely faces.
It is really surprising that stretch marks is not actually classified as a skin disease but few of them are really disgusting to even look at. In addition, when the body expands or shrinks in size quickly, fine lines may appear on the body. The below ways are few amazing ways that have be proven 100% working for the past years, centuries and even months.
Best 5 Basic Ways To Remove Stretch Marks
All you are required to do is to follow the steps carefully and watch as it works miraculously. The below ways can remove stretch marks from your skin. Please read the following guidelines carefully:-
#1. The Use of Aloe Vera and Vitamin E:-
It is very obvious that Aloe Vera seems to do all the works in clearing spots from our skin. It even helps in making the breast not to sag but in other way round, Aloe Vera can be used sceptically to remove stretch marks from the skin. Aloe Vera works very well because of its several essential nutrients and active compounds and they helps in the removal of stretch marks from our body.
How to Use it => Many are not familiar with the steps. Anyway, it is done by rubbing Aloe Vera on the affected parts of your skin for few minutes, and then rinse it off with warm water. This can be done morning and night.
OR YOU CAN USE THIS METHOD => Well, Vitamin E has always played a role in removing strong and firm stretch mark from our body. But today, I will be showing how you can make use of it missing it with Aloe Vera. " Mix ¼ cup of Aloe Vera gel with oil from 10 Vitamin E capsules and oil from 5 Vitamin A capsules. Then apply this mixture on the affected part of your skin until it is fully absorbed. Repeat this process every day (twice daily) and after some time you will notice that the stretch marks on your skin has started to disappear.
Remember, we don't know how your stretch mark look like, so we can't give you a specific date or days duration for the marks to disappear but keep apply this method till you get a satisfying result.
#2. The Use of Water (H2o4):-
Keeping our body always hydrated, is one of the best ways to remove this stretch mark from our body. Water has always been good and helpful to our body, so in this kind of problem, it is not exempted. When your skin is well hydrated, this results in regular detoxification of your skin pores which restores elasticity of your skin and help you get rid of stretch marks.
How to Stay Hydrated:- Every morning, before you brush or after brushing, try taking a full glass of water and then as they day goes by try drinking 10 glasses of water daily to keep your skin well hydrated. This will help soften your skin and help maintain its elasticity. Do your best to avoid coffee, tea or soda as these things can cause dehydration of the skin which in turn can cause stretch marks to appear on your skin.
#3. The Use of Sugar:-
Sugar lovers, please read carefully, don't just see the use of sugar and without reading you jump and buy a cartoon of sugary foods. Sugar (white) is one of the natural ways to remove stretch marks from the skin. Because Sugar exfoliates the skin.
How to Use => The use of sugar is NOT by eating or swallowing it. It is by mixing a teaspoon of raw sugar with some almond oil and a few drops of lemon juice. Please, for it to work perfectly, try and mix it well. After which, you can try to apply it on the areas of your body with stretch marks, rub it gently for at least 10 minutes every day before taking a bath.
#4. The Use of Olive Oil :-
Are you amazed in seeing this in our list? Please don't be because even seeing the name, you have to believe it works perfectly, the nutrients and antioxidants that are present in Olive oil has the healing power to improve various skin problems such as stretch marks.
How to Use it => It is not that hard, all you have to do is to take a handful of warm olive oil and massage the affected part of your skin carefully, olive oil improves the blood circulation and reduce the stretch marks on this part of your skin. Leave it for an hour, so the Vitamin A, D and E present in it can be absorbed by the skin.
And if you can keep your skin moisturized especially at nights with a mixture of Olive oil with vinegar and water, it is going to work perfectly and also, if you can apply this to your skin before going to bed at night. This will help keep your skin moisturized and also exfoliate your skin.
#5. The Use of Potato Juice:-
This is one of the best and Natural Ways to remove stretch marks from our body, this potato Juice works perfectly because of the presence of the vitamins and minerals. It also foster growth and restoration of the skin cells.
How to Use it => The method is so simple and easy, all you have to do is to slice a medium-sized potato into thick slices and use the slices to rub on the stretch marks on your skin gently for few minutes.
Please ensure that the liquid from the potato covers the affected areas of your skin, leave it to dry off for some time before washing it off with warm water.
Please note that, gaining and losing of weight over a short period of time is what causes these stretch marks at first, so try and maintain a good body size to prevent the marks reappearing afterwards. Do you know that Fats is one of the known causes of stretch marks.
Top 5 Steps to Stop Premature Ejaculation
But to the younger Men and Women, it is premature ejaculation, that leads to significant setbacks in relationships and marriages. But today, below are the top five steps on how to prevent premature ejaculation.
How to Stop Premature Ejaculation
Just sit down and read the below successful tips because it is going to help in the stoppage of premature Ejaculation.
#1. Stopping all Sexual Stimulation Technique
This technique involves stopping all sexual stimulation when it’s too late, before ejaculation. Most Men of our time, this technique to them, means withdrawing the penis from the vagina while for other this can be avoided and substituted by just stopping the pumping. You can resume thrusting and intercourse when the feeling to ejaculate is buried.
So note that communication on how to stop premature ejaculation imperative when using this technique. And please, it is advisable to alert your partner when you are getting close organism and your intention to stop temporarily or slow down the intercourse.
Here is the main Squeezing technique... Read Carefully Please!
This Squeeze Technique requires you or your partner to squeeze the tip of your penis for around 10 to 20 seconds. Apply the squeeze when you get close to the “point of no return”. Squeeze the penis directly on its head using the thumb and apply pressure using the forefinger. The squeeze suppresses the ejaculation reflex. The pressure drives blood out of the penis briefly to reduce sexual tension and the ejaculatory response immediately.
#2. Trying Kegel Exercises Also Improves it
Most of us, might not be aware of this Kegel Exercises but it unknown to you that it helps to tighten the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles. Note that the muscles contract during organism, which implies that if you get a well-toned muscle you will have better control of ejaculation. The exercise involves cutting the flow of urine by repetitively starting and stopping it.
You clench the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles by interrupting the flow of urine, just like you would hold the bladder when it is full, and you can’t get to the bathroom.
So, introducing this to you, you have to take several sets of the Kegel Exercises every day, because it advisable, or you can refer to a more experienced Doctor for more counselling.
#3. Using Different Sexual Strategy
Yes, during the intercourse, changing of the sex positions helps a lot. This implies that, when the action is going on, making use of different sex positions will enable you to sex pumping without excuses or getting questionable looks.
And also, it advisable to combine the squeeze technique with the new sex position, during the changeover. So changing sex position will allow you to make brief pauses now and then during lovemaking. A case in point, some men could ejaculate much faster when using the man on top (traditional missionary position).
These men may, however, last longer if their mate is on top. But, don not forget that sexual positions’ preference varies widely. Be very gentle during sexual intercourse. Behaving like a gentleman during the intercourse, also shows a great improvement on it.
Note that, getting yourself very worked up by hard and fast thrusting will cause your premature ejaculation outcome. So try and make time for yourself to rest before evening time.
#4. The Breathing technique
Balancing the equation between you and your partner by using the Breathing technique also helps. It is done by distracting yourself but some women who easily get sexually arouse for another round may dies of, because this time, you have just distracted yourself from your partner.
So relaxing and breathing deeply is an unbelievable technique that delays ejaculation. This method can work best for premature ejaculation that is caused by tension and anxiety.
Because of this relaxing effects, Guys suggests taking red wine before making love can significantly reduce premature ejaculation. For others, distractions such as thinking about football and office can also prevent premature ejaculation. Please note – avoid thinking out loud!
And please, also note that the above techniques needs to be taken seriously because thinking out loud, doesn't solve the problem and troubles, we are currently facing.
#5. Regular Visiting Your Sex Therapist Improves it A lot
Visiting your doctor, Counsellor or Sex Therapist can also be of help because they will advise you on everything you need to know about the situation and there may have all answers to your unlimited questions.
And also note that self-help books that can assist you prevent premature ejaculation. Remember that the therapist will be one of the greatest help for your sex difficulties and probably advise on techniques or sex pills to use or not to use, depending on your condition.
Remember to follow your partner in a right manner, in order for the two of you not to get carried away or distracted by the above methods but trust me, if you can go slow with her, everything will be under your control!
#4. The Breathing technique
Balancing the equation between you and your partner by using the Breathing technique also helps. It is done by distracting yourself but some women who easily get sexually arouse for another round may dies of, because this time, you have just distracted yourself from your partner.
So relaxing and breathing deeply is an unbelievable technique that delays ejaculation. This method can work best for premature ejaculation that is caused by tension and anxiety.
Because of this relaxing effects, Guys suggests taking red wine before making love can significantly reduce premature ejaculation. For others, distractions such as thinking about football and office can also prevent premature ejaculation. Please note – avoid thinking out loud!
And please, also note that the above techniques needs to be taken seriously because thinking out loud, doesn't solve the problem and troubles, we are currently facing.
#5. Regular Visiting Your Sex Therapist Improves it A lot
Visiting your doctor, Counsellor or Sex Therapist can also be of help because they will advise you on everything you need to know about the situation and there may have all answers to your unlimited questions.
And also note that self-help books that can assist you prevent premature ejaculation. Remember that the therapist will be one of the greatest help for your sex difficulties and probably advise on techniques or sex pills to use or not to use, depending on your condition.
Remember to follow your partner in a right manner, in order for the two of you not to get carried away or distracted by the above methods but trust me, if you can go slow with her, everything will be under your control!
10 Things Successful People Never Do Again
“Never go back.” What does that mean? From observations of successful people, clinical psychologist and author of Never Go Back: 10 Things You'll Never Do Again (Howard Books, June 2014), Dr. Henry Cloud has discovered certain “awakenings” that people have—in life and in business—that once they have them, they never go back to the old way of doing things. And when that happens, they are never the same. In short, they got it.
“Years ago, a bad business decision of mine led to an interesting discussion with my mentor,” Dr. Cloud says. “I had learned a valuable lesson the hard way, and he reassured me: ‘The good thing is once you learn that lesson, you never go back. You never do it again.’
“I wondered, what are the key awakenings that successful people go through that forever change how they do things, which propel them to succeed in business, relationships, and life? I began to study these awakenings, researching them over the years.”
Although life and business have many lessons to teach us, Dr. Cloud observed 10 “doorways” of learning that high performers go through, never to return again.
Successful people never again…
1. Return to what hasn’t worked.
Whether a job, or a broken relationship that was ended for a good reason, we should never go back to the same thing, expecting different results, without something being different.
2. Do anything that requires them to be someone they are not.
In everything we do, we have to ask ourselves, “Why am I doing this? Am I suited for it? Does it fit me? Is it sustainable?” If the answer is no to any of these questions, you better have a very good reason to proceed.
3. Try to change another person.
When you realize that you cannot force someone into doing something, you give him or her freedom and allow them to experience the consequences. In doing so, you find your own freedom as well.
4. Believe they can please everyone.
Once you get that it truly is impossible to please everyone, you begin to live purposefully, trying to please the right people.
5. Choose short-term comfort over long-term benefit.
Once successful people know they want something that requires a painful, time-limited step, they do not mind the painful step because it gets them to a long-term benefit. Living out this principle is one of the most fundamental differences between successful and unsuccessful people, both personally and professionally.
6. Trust someone or something that appears flawless.
It’s natural for us to be drawn to things and people that appear "incredible." We love excellence and should always be looking for it. We should pursue people who are great at what they do, employees who are high performers, dates who are exceptional people, friends who have stellar character, and companies that excel. But when someone or something looks too good to be true, he, she, or it is. The world is imperfect. Period. No one and no thing is without flaw, and if they appear that way, hit pause.
7. Take their eyes off the big picture.
We function better emotionally and perform better in our lives when we can see the big picture. For successful people, no one event is ever the whole story. Winners remember that – each and every day.
8. Neglect to do due diligence.
No matter how good something looks on the outside, it is only by taking a deeper, diligent, and honest look that we will find out what we truly need to know: the reality that we owe ourselves.
9. Fail to ask why they are where they find themselves.
One of the biggest differences between successful people and others is that in love and in life, in relationships and in business, successful people always ask themselves, what part am I playing in this situation? Said another way, they do not see themselves only as victims, even when they are.
10. Forget that their inner life determines their outer success.
The good life sometimes has little to do with outside circumstances. We are happy and fulfilled mostly by who we are on the inside. Research validates that. And our internal lives largely contribute to producing many of our external circumstances.
And, the converse is true: people who are still trying to find success in various areas of life can almost always point to one or more of these patterns as a reason they are repeating the same mistakes.
Everyone makes mistakes…even the most successful people out there. But, what achievers do better than others is recognize the patterns that are causing those mistakes and never repeat them again. In short, they learn from pain—their own and the pain of others.
A good thing to remember is this: pain is unavoidable, but repeating the same pain twice, when we could choose to learn and do something different, is certainly avoidable. I like to say, “we don’t need new ways to fail….the old ones are working just fine!” Our task, in business and in life, is to observe what they are, and never go back to doing them again.
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